I keep watching the Greek programs on Nova in the afternoon when I need to take a break from the Comp and sometimes I also watch the morning show.
Was I mortified at the fact that so many women..yes Us Women are unfaithful in relationships and it is growing day by day. I never did and never will condone men being untruthful and cheating on their partners. I believe if you don't want someone then tell them and then start something new, not do it behind their backs.
One of today's stories was about a guy who was married (He phoned in to tell his story) and his wife first cheated with his brother, then with his best friend. I mean is that a Cosmic Joke or what? The guy said his mistake was giving too much to his wife as she didn't obviously deserve it.
The way the World is going what should we do? Should we just get rid of the Institution of marriage and look at relationships as a fashion item?
Nowadays it's the fashion for young men to go with older women and for old men to go with women their granddaughter's age.
Are the old fashioned values of love and trust going out the window?
I hope not but I tell you what if my Fiance ever cheated on me..I will be packing his bags Mate! I won't sit and be a victim!!! I would give him the space and an ultimatum to choose and only one more chance if he wanted to stay with me.
If there is no trust and mutual respect in a relationship then it is well and truly dead as far as I am concerned. When people say they love someone then they have to give respect as well, love does not exist without respect. Women should not only look at men as to how fat their wallet is and men shouldn't look at women as if they have a sell by date! If they can both change these ugly mentalities we might get somewhere!
Well, that is my rant over, I had to get if off my chest.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Infidelity in relationships.
Posted by Himoacs Yanjiaren at 8:33 AM
Labels: cheater, infidelity, institution of marriage, relationships, unfaithfulness
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12 Comments:
such a rant.. well, indeed it is the evolving society.. changes.. before only men can do that but now, vengeance maybe? Anyway, only one thing though, dont marry if you plan to do many things with many others, right?
Very good point of view.. But it does not point to women alone, it points actually bothe ways... to me as well.. In either way, cheating is bad. Right Elli?
Great observation... this is reality of life and also men cheat.. Maybe this is the expectation not met from both sides. People change when they get married and maybe that is one of the reasons why?
Well, I think that your post suggests that infidelity excuses no one and I like that.
Freedom for all.
hi ellie... just checking out for new posts.. how are you my dear? Well, so much infedility around going on...
How are you my dear? It is almost half a month since you last posted. I am worried about you. How have you been and what's news with you dear?
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Hi Ellie, can you email me please as I need to discuss something with you, thanks, Rachel.
Hi Ellie! I am sorry to hear about your cousin.. Now i know why you were away for so many days.. looking forward to your new post in here and i will be back.. ^^
Hi Yan,
never stop believing in the sanctity of marriage :)
hi Elli.. i am checking here and finally was able to discover his post.. i als did stumble this nad the latest post on your nature friendly post entitled SEM... that was wonderful!
unfortunately infidelity is increasing a lot. It seems that is more common these days. Maybe society is changing somehow than how it used to be.
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