I keep watching the Greek programs on Nova in the afternoon when I need to take a break from the Comp and sometimes I also watch the morning show.
Was I mortified at the fact that so many women..yes Us Women are unfaithful in relationships and it is growing day by day. I never did and never will condone men being untruthful and cheating on their partners. I believe if you don't want someone then tell them and then start something new, not do it behind their backs.
One of today's stories was about a guy who was married (He phoned in to tell his story) and his wife first cheated with his brother, then with his best friend. I mean is that a Cosmic Joke or what? The guy said his mistake was giving too much to his wife as she didn't obviously deserve it.
The way the World is going what should we do? Should we just get rid of the Institution of marriage and look at relationships as a fashion item?
Nowadays it's the fashion for young men to go with older women and for old men to go with women their granddaughter's age.
Are the old fashioned values of love and trust going out the window?
I hope not but I tell you what if my Fiance ever cheated on me..I will be packing his bags Mate! I won't sit and be a victim!!! I would give him the space and an ultimatum to choose and only one more chance if he wanted to stay with me.
If there is no trust and mutual respect in a relationship then it is well and truly dead as far as I am concerned. When people say they love someone then they have to give respect as well, love does not exist without respect. Women should not only look at men as to how fat their wallet is and men shouldn't look at women as if they have a sell by date! If they can both change these ugly mentalities we might get somewhere!
Well, that is my rant over, I had to get if off my chest.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Infidelity in relationships.
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Labels: cheater, infidelity, institution of marriage, relationships, unfaithfulness
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
STRIVE TO BE HAPPY.
We can all be quick in finding reasons to be miserable gits but it is harder always to be grateful and find something to cling on to which makes us happy. I don't mean that we should force ourselves to go into bouts of ecstasy but I think I have found a way to balance the blues but keeping busy.
Yeas I think keeping busy and doing something that you actually enjoy can get you over those Monday Morning blues in an instant. It is more often than not an idle mind that festers negative thoughts and if you can control a negative thought that enters the mind before it enters the heart then half the battle is won.
Another thing too keep in mind is don't wait for others to make you happy. It is best to find things that make you happy like hobbies and doing nice deeds. if you make someone else happy then that is a double wammy and you should take some peasure in that for yourself too.
A smile and good manners doesn't cost anythign and most of the best things in life are free. I am only writing down these thoughts from experience as this is the way I have managed to fight my own depression, without taking pills or going into booze or drugs. We can do this the healthy way and not only be thinking of others worse off than us to make ourselves feel better, that ain't very good either, esoecially if we can't help them, if you know what I mean. I don't want to give a lecture in self improvement as I am no Oprahbut it's just how I was feeling and thinking today, just wanted to share.
Posted by Himoacs Yanjiaren at 11:36 AM 3 comments Links to this post
Labels: depression, monday morning blues, negitive thinking, Oprah, self improvement
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
My work at home moneymakers part 2.
Here you will find my paid to click moneymakers which are easy to join and fun to do.
These ones are my top ones and firm earners. I will add sites as I see fit and will be posting how much I get paid from each and when. These are nice to do on Mozilla Firefox and you can do them fast. If you upgrade and purchase referrals you can earn good extra income. I have made nearly a grand from paid to click! PTC SITES ARE VERY EASY TO WORK WITH IF THEY ARE GOOD SITES. I have brought here the best ptc sites and a site that PAYS YOU TO BLOG ..
INTERNATIONAL MEMBERS CAN JOIN:
GET PAID TO BLOG! CLICK HERE










BUXAGENCY
GREEKBUX
BLACKCLICKS
STORYBUX
CLIXPLAZA
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Labels: good sites, make money online top earners, paid to click, paying sites
Sunday, September 28, 2008
My work at home Moneymakers. Part 1.
I work from home as you all know and here is a brief summary of the sites that pay me to stay at home and work in the comfort of my chair. Today I will start with my immediate and easy earner which is also great for newbies in the work at home Arena.
GET PAID TO BLOG:
Yes you can literally get paid to blog from day one when you sign up to today.com and not only get paid for each post you make a day but you also get paid for page views of your blog and anyone you refer to the company and they start blogging. You don't have to fork out a penny but you can start once you have been approved. As long as your command of the English language is decent you will have no trouble knocking up a post a day and once you sign up and you let me know you have started blogging and been approved you will have my full support and I will help your blog gain popularity and page views!
Once you have one blog on the go you may be able to start a second one. I have two blogs running with today dot com and I have earned over 40 bucks in less than a month already even though I was off the Comp for a week!
They conveniently pay you via Paypal once you reach 50 bucks and you can earn cash prizes and the more popular your blog gets, the more you will get to earn!
Sign up by clicking on the white today box on either of these blogs.
green not mean
qiman's world
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain and it doesn't cost you a penny to sign up and the company is legit and above board. The Customer care is great and there is also a forum and you have me also to help out if need be. You can sign up from any country which is great and you can write about any type of subject.
I have even written an interesting post on how it is Green to work from home here so you will also be helping the Environment.
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Labels: GET PAID TO BLOG, green not mean, make money blogging, qiman's world, tooday dot com
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Linkbucks and My Google Pagerank.
Well I am a happy bunny today as I joined up to Linkbucks last night and it pays you for redirecting your link through their links and getting paid for impressions. This is great as well if you are an image junkie too. You can make a fortune from it. I just got one direct referral and already have earned nearly three dollars in one day. It is showing me the potential of marketing this site in a viral marketing way. They also pay twice a month via Paypal and you can sign up from anywhere in the World FOR FREE. If you are a webmaster and have you own forums and blogs you can make a nice extra packet from joining Linkbucks and you can kill two birds with one stone.
I was also chuffed at my Google Pagerank update and am now the proud owner of a PR2 for this blog in approximately two months and I still have plenty of SEO work to do on it. You can pick up a really cool widget for your blog here at Rank Widget to show off your pagerank.
It's amazing once you can earn more from one source doing the same thing. This is what is best in Internet Marketing. Thanks also to my Mates on Webcosmo Forums as they are always there to assist me in all my Techy needs!
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Labels: google pagerank, google pagerank update, linkbucks, pagerank for this blog, rank widget, seo for bloggers, viral marketing
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Glad to be back Online.
I am soooooooooo glad to be back online and I really missed hooking up with all my Online Buddies.
I missed blogging too as it has become a nice little addiction for me and keeps depression at bay as I think I might be going through the menopause quite early.
This isn't good news for my bones though as when ladies go through menopause their bones can start getting brittle so I may have to dose up on calcium - magnesium compounds amontst the other vitamins I am already taking.
I have a pile of work to catch up to and around 9 assignments to write tomorrow and some forums to re visit so hopefully I will get into gear tomorrow morning and start doing whatever I can. I have many people to visit and blogs to read too which I have sorely missed so with any luck I will be doing some good reading of all my Friends' posts too.
I have managed to to most of my clicks ooday but still I am a little behind. I don't want to get stressed though about it all. I don't want to become ill.
Posted by Himoacs Yanjiaren at 11:47 AM 5 comments Links to this post
Labels: blogging, internet, make money online, online buddies, work from home
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Mory Kante, Yeke Yeke and songs I love.
Today I needed to take time off typing my eyeballs out and as I was searching for some song lyrics as I love to sing I managed to Google down the lyrics of one of my favourite all time songs, YEKE YEKE by Moiri Kante who is a well known famous singer and musician from Guinea, although he was sent to Mali as a child to study music as he comes from a line of traditional Musiacians, lucky Him may I ad.
Here are the lyrics and the song. Please enjoy it as much as I do:
Bi sounkouroun lou la donkégna ah ah
Bi kamberen lou la donkegna ah ah
I madji I ma yélé
I kanan n'bila nara ro
N'bo n'bolo bila
Kanfalani yana sara le ila
Gnin kisse gbela serra le ils
Yékéké nimo yé ké yé ké
Ké woyé boli lalé
N'na doni kassi kan
Woyé boli lalé
Eh eh
Nyé n'ta soron akono mi ma ta I yonfé
Wo dén té soron lonkéléna
Sini Mory la diyandé
Timba bara wouloukounta
Souba ma kata I yala
Ah sara lila
Yékéké nimo yé ké yé ké
Djely mousso ni kédjou to wara bo
M'ba mofila téma yan féou
From http://www.metrolyrics.com/yeke-yeke-lyrics-mory-kante.html
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Labels: african genre, chinese music, mory kante, songs from africa, traditional african music, yeke yeke, yeke yeke lyrics






